We all have friends who have friends that we dislike. The question is now...how do you deal with that, especially when when they are your best friend friends? Think about it, because ur close with ur bff and they are close with ur bff too, ur bound to seem them. Which can be an awkward position for you and the "enemy."
Here are three rules from http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Deal-With-People-You-Dont-Like-in-3-Simple-Steps&id=2710735 to show you how to deal with these people.
"1) Nobody's Perfect.
Understand that nobody's perfect. We have your own flaws and that doesn't really make us much different from the person we dislike.
2) Focus on the Positive.
While nobody's perfect, nobody's not without merit either. So one effective way to deal with people you don't like is to focus on their positive traits or deeds.
3) Be Nice to Them.
I know this sounds crazy; but one of the reliable methods on how to deal with people you don't like is by being kind to them. Doing something good for others leaves you with a warm feeling inside.
By doing nice things for the person you dislike, you are associating that warm feeling with him or her. And if you're nice, he or she will be more likely to return the favor.
These are some of the positive ways on how to deal with people you don't like. Anger is never a good thing and frustration shouldn't be left to reach boiling point. The suggestions above are some of the best ways to handle your situation. You'll not only be doing yourself a favor, you'll also be building solid relationships with anyone.
Whether or not these will work for you is another story all together, because I know it is hard to be nice to someone who just irks you, but try because no one can fault you after that. You tried right!!! Maybe it doesnt mean you didn'y try hard enough, maybe the person is just that fucking easy to hate!! lol
So ladies good luck on your journey to peace, as I will be TRYING to do the same :/ >>> MAYBE HAHA!
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